| Comment | First of all, stop with the 'a man would never get this' stuff, that's facebook and reddit hearsay. A court cares primarily and absolutely about the children's safety and wellbeing.
Second, "whether I should hold tight to see if her family can talk sense into her" - she's a textbook addict, talking isn't going to fix this. She needs counselling and rehab. I don't see any positive outcome here that doesn't include her signing up to that.
Third, you can get a lawyer's consultation, which won't break the bank, just to assess your options, and - most importantly - to make sure that the actions you take right now (being the one who has left) don't prejudice any future proceedings. |
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