| Comment | Thank you for the advice and comments. Some of them sting a little to hear, but that is what I asked for.
I think what I need to focus on is being less insecure and less reliant on other people for my happiness. People will follow after. It has been a tough 12 months, but as people have reminded me, there are clubs, volunteer work, less toxic apps than tinder.
Also, I think I have to fully accept that this is my situation and if I want a social life here, I have to fully put my hand in and say, "I'm here to add something", NOT, as people have pointed out "uh my life was better elsewhere, uh work, friends and love should all change to fit me". Yeah... I can see now why people don't wanna employ. hang with or date me... OUCH |
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