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Your username is well suited. The lone wolf. Hey some of us are like that. The lone wolf that operate outside normal social structures.

All of my past relationships have came organically through friendship and talking. I cannot do dating apps. It feels so forced for me because I am also a lone wolf type character who enjoys good company but is also perfectly fine alone.

Do you have any hobbies. Like do you support a football team, or go to the gym or something. Enjoy solo travel? An activity that involves other people being around but you don’t need to be with other people to take part.

Approaching people in shopping centres etc is a bold extroverted strategy and may be taken the wrong way by some women.

I’d try something that doesn’t involve pressure to meet someone. I’m sure as the world starts to normalise forums like this will have social nights etc .

A spot of solo travel to the popular backpacking destinations, stay in the hostels. Lots of people doing the same thing. Or go somewhere like London or New York. You can blend in with the crowd and its not uncommon to meet other people also looking for friends either because they are travelling, or moved to the city for work.

There is someone out there for everyone. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Its always when you least expect it somebody shows up.