| Comment | Lots of things tend to haunt people, we all have trauma in our lives. If the normal support networks don't suffice, then outside help is needed.
You need help. You need help to deal with your past trauma, and you also need help in social norms before you cause another person a trauma of their own.
That you are trying to hide behind a baseless "virtue signalling" accusation just underscores to me how desperately you need help. There are many support groups and lines, maybe the first won't cut it but keep trying.
You also need to grasp how utterly wrong you were, and the hurt you probably caused the bartender. |
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