| Comment | People often recommend clubs / shared activities but I’ve never been into that, I don’t want to start a new hobby just to prowl for women. I also feel like if you ask out multiple women from a thing you’ll start to get a bad reputation.
Personally online is the one for me, tho it’s a grind for sure. I like that the other person is definitely looking for something romantic be it a relationship or a fling so there’s less chance of awkward ambiguity.
I use all three of the biggies (Tinder, Hinge, Bumble). I try to hit the swipe limit everyday but only swipe on those I realistically would go on a date with. Within 3 days or 10/15 messages I ask if they want to meet in person as I can’t really know if I’ll like someone til I’ve meet in person and want to minimise the time wasted on fruitless endeavours.
Introductions from people you know is a great way of meeting people.
Random in person approach - you better be damn good looking and charming for this to work imo, really feel like this isn’t a thing here, has anyone had success with this? |
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