That's exactly what i do and also through 1st hand experience of abuse and the harm it causes I couldn't rest my head on my pillow that night even with the slightest bit of doubt a young girl no to much older than my own daughter could have been at risk. Its so sad and like you said I'd be a gullible tit and a decent person than look at everyone as a liar or scammer.
I'd much rather someone come on the sub though and just said.... look I'm on my arse skint I can't make ends meet and would be greatful for any support/gesture available. At the end of the day we have all been there or could find ourselves at some stage on hard times. Its just the lies but it is what it is. Xx |