| Comment | Just to be the devil's advocate: if she pays for a cleaner, the online groceries and a bigger chunk of the mortgage then you are in a gender reversed bog standard relationship for that kind of job. Not condoning it at all, it takes a massive toll on the person who has that kind of lifestyle.
You have been together 7 years, would you say she is still the person you fell on love with? The person you want to live with? If you want to save the relationship I would a. Take her away for a few days and do something like camping where she is far from temptation and see how she is coping with this - and explain to her how you feel. I would also make it clear that the life style is unsustainable for you, and if its part of her job then it's time to find another job. And then, if you can, move out on the days that she is around and stay with friends / family just to make it clear that you mean it.
I hope it works out for you, whichever way. |
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