| Comment | long term solution that I can honestly think of, for yourself, is to move out so that you are in a different environment altogether and have control of your own life. Easier said than done but that's the long term.
>She’s also 67 and doesn’t keep well, so I’m scared she’ll die in less than 20 years and I’ll regret cutting ties with her.
Girl, I'm a pakistani Muslim myself (male) and, generally speaking, females live longer than males and, you should priorities ureself over your mother irrespective of how long you last for...
Short term, it's going to suck, but time heals everything and you will move on and so will your mother too...
Hypothetically speaking, if your mother dies in 5 years Time from now,
Would you rather have 5 years of grief and misery living with her or 5 years of taking control of your life...? |
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