| Comment | Woman here. One thing I have learned is that you can't "fix" people. No matter how hard you try, all you do is end up destroying yourself trying to put them back together. I understand you need closure, or an understanding of just what happened here, but for your own mental health....focus on yourself first. Get yourself into a better place emotionally and mentally. It only takes the littlest steps, but you need to keep moving forward. Eat, sleep, go to work, pay bills - all the mundane bits of life, with something of a hobby thrown in for distraction.
"..... *I’m desperate to know the truth but I’m in bits thinking of all the things folk are saying about me*....."
People's opinions of you are based on what she told them. She is a liar. Only you know your truth, so hold onto that. Trying to change anyone's opinion of you is a fruitless exercise and it will destroy you in the process of trying. The people who truly know you, know who you are and what you are like, will not pay attention to lies. |
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