| Comment | Leave her mate. Honestly, it sounds like she's 100% cheating. Sounds like a textbook narcissist and is constantly gaslighting and using you.
I got out of an 9 year relationship in April/May this year after finding out my missus was cheating with a work colleague when she got all sorts of flirty texts from him which she was reciprocating and she brought an overnight bag to mine she'd meant to leave in the car as she wasn't staying at mine (obviously his). It was only after I ended it, looking back on the last couple of years I was a fucking idiot not to have done it sooner. She currently owes me over 10 grand from when I loaned her money from when she was unemployed. Stupid thing to do, but aye love does blind you.
You can't fix narcissists and people that have personality traits this bad. The gaslighting from your partner sounds like it comes fairly often. Don't put up with that shit mate, no one should. I get that you love her and it can be hard to come to terms with letting go of someone you love, but aye it really sounds like it's needing done here. Been there, albeit to a lesser degree.
I'm sorry you had to go through this shite, just know it's no the end of the world and whilst you might love something so much, hanging on can do so much more damage than the fall will do from letting go. Yer no a wimp mate, yer just an unfortunate cunt that's fallen in love with a pretty shitty person. |
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